Words of Wisdom

As the school year comes to an end it is important for students to reflect on what they have learned. This helps them to see how much they have changed and grown in the past year. To foster this reflection, I organized a project in which students offered advice to younger students. Students answered the question, "What would I have wanted to know before entering this grade?" Students from all over America responded, offering helpful advice to fellow students. The responses are listed below by grade level. Project Coordinator Anne Marie Miskovic Elementary Education University of Illinois Grades K-3 Grades 4-8 Grades 9-12 College

Grades K-3

Our kindergarten students want new students to know that kindergarten is fun! You will get to go to recess, p.e., read big books, read books yourself, practice ABC's and join a community circle. But mostly, you will have fun! Mrs. Farley's AM and PM Classes Sacajawea Elementary School Caldwell, ID Don't clown around. -Michael, Newtown Square, PA 1st You need to know your ABCs. -Elizabeth, Newtown Square, PA 1st Check to make sure you have the right homework written down and pack the right books! -Rebecca, Newtown Square, PA 1st If you don't pack the right books, you will have to do it the next night. -Victoria, Newtown Square, PA 1st You have to study at home for spelling tests. -Danielle, Newtown Square, PA 1st You have to raise your hand when you want to talk. -Richie- Newtown Square, PA 1st You cannot run in the hallway. -Chris- Newtown Square, PA 1st You have to sit and learn. -Gina, Newtown Square, PA 1st You will learn how to make your letters perfect. -Caitlyn, Newtown Square, PA 1st We learn to count from 1 to 100 -Giulia, Newtown Square, PA 1st Don't play rough in the school yard. -Beth, Newtown Square, PA 1st Raise your hand to tell the teacher something. -Andrew, Newtown Square, PA 1st Don't pull on your friends' coats. -Megan, Newtown Square, PA 1st Don't bring hard balls to school. Study spelling words and sight words. Get someone to help you study. -Chris, Newtown Square, PA 1st Don't be afraid to have your first day at school. The teachers are very nice. Sometimes work is hard, but the teachers will help you. You can make friends, and they are nice to you. A older friend can help you and show you around. Don't blurt out. Raise your hand. Follow teacher's rules and directions. They will tell you and show where to sit, and how to behave in the lunchroom. Coby, Caylin, Alex, Erica, Kylee, Jake Meridan, Idaho 2nd grade Third grade is easy if you follow some rules. One, do what the teacher says. Two, study when you have a test. Three, do not be bad or you might get in trouble. Four, get a good night's sleep. One more thing--try to make friends. -Patrick- Newtown Square, PA 3rd Be ready for tests and homework. Follow the class rules. Listen to the person in charge. Know your times tables and division facts and know them well. Try your best at all times. Never fool around in class. If someone teases you, don't tease back; just ignore them and walk away. Always be a good friend. -Katie- Newtown Square, PA 3rd To study multiplication, use flashcards. -Michael- Newtown Square, PA 3rd I had trouble with multiplication, but don't worry. I studied with flashcards and I improved. -Jillian, Newtown Square, PA 3rd Make sure you have all the things you need like pencils, erasers, and art supplies. -Alexandra, Newtown Square, PA 3rd When you get a book report and you don't do it, never lie--always tell the truth--because the teacher goes through the pile. Never talk while you are taking a test. -Greg, Newtown Square, PA 3rd Help your teacher by listening so you can learn. -Amanda, Newtown Square, PA 3rd If there's something you need help with, feel free to ask the teacher. -Colleen, Newtown Square, PA 3rd Do your homework right after school. Start with your hardest subject first. When you are finished, you will be more energetic. -Jackie, Newtown Square, PA 3rd If you have trouble doing math problems, be a detective. Try to work things out and don't rush. Ask your parents how they learned. -Amanda, Newtown Square, PA 3rd Learn not to tease people. -Kevin, Newtown Square, PA 3rd return to beginning

Grades 4-8

When you come to this class you can have a lot of fun. When you come to this class you can study about things you cannot do. Elizabeth, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th Don’t be bad. Do your homework. Play nice. Michelle, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th Do the homework. Daniel, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th 1. You have to do poems. 2. You have to respect the teachers, 3. When you come inside you have to do handwriting. Sandra, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th You have to do poems, projects, and handwriting. Jeanette, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th Do your homework to get better grades on your report card. Yenisa, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th When you come to 4th grade you still learn about Mexico. Lewis, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th You have to write poems, health and social studies. You also have to read a lot. Edna, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th Pay attention when the teacher is talking. Don’t talk or laugh either. Don’t walk when talking with your friends. Maria, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th Don’t behave badly when you are doing your homework. Marco, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th Behave well and respect the teacher because if you don’t she will punish you. Gabriela, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th When you come to 4th grade you have to do your homework. All of the teachers give homework. Respect the teachers. Pay attention when the teacher is talking. Don’t be scared the first day. Don’t talk a lot Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th I want to tell you that it is fun to be in the 4th grade and you also study many interesting things. Kareli, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th You have to study poems. In 4th grade you have to do your homework and behave well and you have to study poems of different kinds. Jorge, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th Learn your multiplication because that are what you use a lot to understand. You learn a lot if you try your best to learn. There are many parties and a talent show. 4th grade is fun because you are able to sing in a talent show. Yesenia, Illinois Park School Elgin, IL 4th THIRD GRADERS Going into fourth grade? Then listen up. I've got some good hints to help you get prepared. First of all, you need to expect to do harder work than in third grade. Be ready to do lots of homework. So be sure to do your homework now. If you don't, it will be a rude awakening. Believe me, it happened to me. In social studies, there are a lot of reports. Some are animal reports, and the one big one is on Illinois. It's hard! And last you'll have to do harder math past hundreds in division! So if your going into 4th grade I would consider doing this stuff. Justin Our friends told us, "Don't be worried to go to another school. You'll make friends soon." We did make friends soon and you will too. So, don't worry about going to another school. It will be OK. Ms. Harding's Class 4th Wilson Intermediate School Pekin, Illinois #1: You do a LOT of math (subtraction, multiplication, division,etc.) so practice basic facts! #2: Always remember to complete homework, you don't get spared in fourth grade, or 5th,6th, 7th either........... #3: Be prepared for long division! Arriety 4th 1.Before you enter 4th grade make sure you are pretty good at math. 2.You should know how to write narrative stories, persuasive stories, and expository. 3.And also before you enter 4th grade be ready for lots of homework! And also this year in 4th grade i think I have improved in my math skills, my writing skills, and my reading skills. Allison, 4th #1 is to work hard on reports. There are three little ones and one HUGE one. The little ones are simple the big ones drive you nuts! So try HARD! #2 is to try to complete homework on time. That's because the teachers don't let you off so easy when your in 4th, 5th, and 6th. Plus you sometimes get 10 points off. #3 is for big reports and small get a lot of information. That's because you will get a way better grade. Mary Kate, 4th Word of wisdom for 4 grade going into 5 grade. Keep up with your homework. Stay on task. Don't fool around. Work as a group as much as you can. All way do your best at school work. Or another thing you do. My teacher all way said to ",Nothing come with out effort ." The state report was one of the hardiest thing I have ever done. But if you keep up with it will be fairly easy. If you do all that I say 5 grade will be a blur. Susan I have learned a lot in fifth grade such as long division, harder reading, and better comprehension skills. In math I learned how to divide decimals. It is easy as long as you know your multiplication facts and you know where the decimal goes. In reading, the work is easy and hard at the same time because you must be able to comprehend what you read better and most of the assignments are pretty easy. In social studies you learn all about the history of America in fifth grade. In science, you learn about electricity, sound, how sounds are made, and the ocean. Also, don't hold wires that are hooked up to a battery with nothing on the wires because you'll burn your fingers and it doesn't tickle! Really, fifth grade is a lot of fun if you want it to be. These are some things 5th graders should know. 4th graders should study math and classroom behavior is important. You need to know how to listen so you pay attention. So you know what’s going on. Never fight so you don’t get in trouble. Those are some things that will make you successful in school. Start studying your division! Division is used a lot in fifth grade. At first it's confusing but you'll soon get the hang of it. Decimals are used in math a lot too. Sometimes they can be a pain-in-the-neck,but they're really easy. I thought it was hopeless to learn anything about dividing. All I knew was that I thought it was hard but in a few days I was great at it. For Social Studies start studying your history because you'll be studying about how America got started and famous people. Go to the library and get books about the Vikings, Christopher Columbus, Pilgrims, Puritans, Native Americans, early explores, The Revolutionary War, Napoleon, The Louisiana Purchase, and The War of 1812. If you don't get along with people very much or start fights often, there's something you need to know about fifth grade, you communicate with people communicate a lot in fifth grade with other kids and adults. Good luck, and I hope you take my advice for fifth grade! Math- You will be doing dividing and decimals. Dividing is very easy if you have a calculator. Reading-You will be reading a book, then you will do a sort of an assignment like vocabulary. Writing-You will write narratives and persuasive. In narratives you write about something that happened to you. In persuasive you will persuade some one to go or do something. Science-You will learn about telephones, cars, light, and energy. Don't worry its easy. Social Studies-You'll learn about Exploration and Discovery, Exploring the New World,the English Colonies,the Road to Independence,A New Republic , and Nationalism don't worry its hard. And that is it. There is a lot you must know before entering fifth grade. Believe me. I know. It is not the easiest grade ever. It's probably one of the hardest grades I have ever been through. Especially if you have to do a state report like I had to do. Here, let me give you some advice to make it a little bit easier for you. Your lucky because when I entered fifth grade, I never got any advice from anyone. The first thing you need to concentrate on is respect. It's the most important thing you need to no. For example, you need to respect the students, even if you don't like them. Most importantly, you need to respect your teacher and other Adults. If you don't respect anyone's property, they might destroy yours. If you get in a fight, I tell you how to solve it. Get a teacher and talk to her and explain what the problem is. You don't need to hit or call anyone names. If you do, it will just make things worse. If you hit other people, you will just get in more trouble. Maybe if you apologize and say your sorry and shake hands, nothing will cause you to get in a fight ever again. Another thing is to get your homework in on time. If you don't get your homework in on time, there will be consequences. What my teacher does, is she sends homework alert home with me. (its only happened to me one or two times.) If I get it back the next day signed by my parents, its only ten percent off the assignment. If I don't, I get a zero on the assignment. Or sometimes she might keep me in for recess. Maybe, she will even send me to the principle's office. (its never happened, but it could with your teacher). What I'm saying is, be sure to get your homework in on time. Keith Don't eat the school lunch. Dean, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th Make sure you don't forget any books or the teachers get mad. Michael, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th There is no more recess. Mike, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th Be yourself and you'll be fine. Jillian, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th Make sure nobody finds out your locker combination unless you know you can trust them. Nicole, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th Make sure to get plenty of sleep. Maria, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th Don't talk back to the teachers. Joey, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th The work gets harder, so study and you won't have to worry that you'll fail because you won't. Ashley, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th Don't think sixth grade is easy - it's hard, but after a while it's pretty cool. Frank, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th Once you learn you locker number and combination you'll know it like the back of your hand. Maya, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th You will change and your friends will change. You will be expected to be more responsible. Watch our for who you hang out with. If your friends act badly so might you or you will be blamed for their behavior. Max & John, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th You may be afraid at first, but you will get used to grade 6. You will get lots more quizzes and tests. Study every night. Nicole & Malinda, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th There are lots of opportunities to participate in extra curricular activities. The work is harder, but you learn an awful lot. Stephanie, Stephanie, & Jessica, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th Do not expect 6th grade to be like 5th. It is much different and more difficult. We get more homework and learn to study more and harder. Megan & Amanda, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th Make new friends and keep the old ones. We have lockers. Don't worry about getting stuffed in them, they are way too small. Never tell anyone your locker combination. Gail & Stephanie, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th There is a lot more pressure to get involved in the wrong things. I've been asked to smoke and when I refused, I lost a friend. Oh, well! We change for different classes and it's a lot of fun. We work harder, but we have a lot of opportunities to do extra activities. James- Hazlet, New Jersey 6th We love the school ice cream. The teachers are nice. Mike & Mike, Hazlet, New Jersey 6th My advice to kids is to try to have your teacher respect you because if your teacher respects you,you will have a fun year. The best advice I can give you is to get your work in on time and have it be to your best ability. Craig, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th In sixth grade you should find a way for your teacher to trust you because you get a lot more privileges. Alicia, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th The Most I Learned In Sixth Grade...... is about writing, I learned how to make poems, and write short stories. My class had an author come in and talk to us and teach us how to write. She stayed for four weeks, I learned a lot from her! My advice to anyone in school is to stay in school! You will learn a lot more. Ashley, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th I learned the a lot in sixth grade. I think I learned the most in science. I learned a lot about the digestive system and the circulatory system. I know how they work and what we need them for. My advice is that you should listen to your teacher because everything they say will help you when your older. It may not make sense now, but it will. Beth, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th I’m in 6th grade and I’ve learned not to take drugs because it can do some serious damage to your brain. For instance if you try marijuana it can have some effects on emotions, thinking, learning, and senses which are controlled by the cerebrum. Crystal, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th I’ve learned a lot this year about the body systems and about math, I’ve read a lot of good books in reading, and learned really interesting stuff about the Mayan civilization. I’ve become more responsible in bringing papers back and forth from home to school, and better at doing homework. My advice to you is; Be prepared for anything!. Whether it’s for learning something new, or so much homework you think you’ll die, you’d better be prepared! Megan, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th The best words of wisdom is to never gossip about other people, or they’re going to get you back worse. Molly, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th The best words of wisdom that I can think of for kids going into 6th grade is to never gossip about anybody because it will all come back to you in the long run. You should always listen in class because it will definitely help you in your school work. And always treat people the way you would want to be treated. Have fun! Sarah, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th From lots of experience in school I have learned a lot of stuff to do and how to prepare for different grades. Like if it is ever your first year in school be polite to other people if you want to make some friends. When it is your last year, you want to try your hardest in a lot of things like your physical fitness test, the mile, and field day so that you can feel good about your last year in elementary school and so that you are prepared for the future. Mark, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th I learned a lot in sixth grade. I think I learned the most in science. I learned a lot about the digestive system and the circulatory system. I know how they work and what we need them for. My advice is that you should listen to your teachers because everything they say will help you when your older. It may not make sense now, but it will. Beth, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th My advice to you when you are in sixth grade, is to finish your homework because if you don’t, you will get a late slip and you will have to stay inside and do it. Also, try get more friends. Vinh, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th My advice is that you get your homework done otherwise your work will be late and you’ll get bad grades. So get your homework done. Marisa, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th If you are going to make it in six grade, get your homework done. If you don’t , none of your excuses will work . The math will be harder, but it will pay off. Same with spelling. Try to do your best in all subjects. Shawn, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th If you’re coming to sixth grade, I would be ready, because if you’re not, you are in for a shock. Everybody says that it is a drag, but most the time it’s not. If you want my advice, well, here it is. Sad, but true, the people who the teachers trust get to do more fun stuff. And another thing, always get your work in or you are just digging a big hole for yourself. I learned this the hard way. That’s my advice. P.S. Don’t get in trouble Dan, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th Most people think that sixth grade is hard but if you finish your work and don’t get in trouble you will do well. That is all of my advice. Brendin, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th My advice to you about being in the sixth grade is always get your work done. Otherwise, you will be inside for recess doing your work, and trust me, it is not fun. Jim, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th I have learned a lot about the digestive system, the circulatory system, and now we are on the nervous system. They tell you every function that they do. All the body systems are the most important things that I have learned this year. I have grown and matured a lot since kindergarten. My advice to you is to learn all the functions of the body because you might need to know that someday. Krysti, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th The advice I would give to a younger student is to do your work and don’t mess around a lot. Listen to your teacher, do not get in trouble by the teacher, and don’t get into fights. Adam, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th My advice is to have a lot of friends in 6th grade. This helps if you go to Jr. High next year for 7th grade. Then if you have a better chance of knowing people in your classes. Rachel, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th This year in sixth grade, I have learned to be responsible. All subjects will be more difficult, but what makes sixth grade a challenge is that teachers don’t "baby" you. If you have late work, you get a lower grade. My advice to you is to get your homework in on time, or you are in trouble. Travis, Lily Lake School, Stillwater, MN 6th The advice I would give to kids entering middle school is try to be open-minded and accept others. Don't judge people on their clothers or appearances. Try to be friendly with everyone and you'll have a lot less enemies and a lot more friends. Thank-you. Julie, Iowa return to beginning

Grades 9-12

In my life a lot of things have changed. I have gotten older and my behavior has changed. When I was younger I was immature but now I have manners for others just like when I was younger and somebody had asked me to do something I would not do it. Now I would do it without saying anything. I've been improving in my work in most classes. Ronald, 9th grade Frederick Douglass High School How I have changed and grown this year? My attitude and sense of life changed. My maturity level is higher than it was before. I used to take everything for a joke, I didn't really care about anything. When my grandmother was sick, she told me to continue doing good in school and make her prouder of me than she was. Talking to her made me see how childish I was acting and taking stuff for granted. Tawana, 9th grade Frederick Douglass High School Many people grow physically and mentally during a year. How much have you grown since April 21, 1996? The place that really showed me how much I have grown was my visit back to James Madison Middle, before spring break. Going back to my middle school, to be a teacher's aide for a day, showed me that even though high school students may act immature, we really aren't. Another thing that showed me now much I've grown was how I handled a situation with a girl who wanted to fight over my ex-boyfriend, Patrick. This showed me that a friendship is more important than a boy. This is my advice for all people: growing is important, but do what's right whenever you can, or be ready to face life's consequences. Sarah, 9th grade Frederick Douglass High School I have grown physically and mentally this year. I'm a freshman in high school so life has changed a lot for me. I have gotten used to the frenzy in the halls, and the heavier books. I also have a lot more new friends. I've learned more this year than any other. I haven't grown in height, but I have in knowledge. --Cheryl, 9th grade Frederick Douglass High School This past high school year, I have grown immensely. I do not feel, however, that I've changed as much physically as I have mentally and spiritually. Reflecting back and comparing how I acted in middle school, I see that one way I have changed the most strongly is my level of maturity. I have also changed my attitude towards ignorance. When I used to laugh at stupidity, I find that now I have very little tolerance. Spiritually and mentally together I have changed because I've experienced many new things; becoming more open-minded, and most importantly more open-hearted. --Tameia, 9th grade Frederick Douglass High School This year was a hard one, but life goes on. When you get to high school, everything changes. You feel like you're more grown, and want to hang with everyone who is cool. If you think it's a piece of cake, its not. You have many events in front of you. When I entered high school I was bad. I would get detention, and be suspended. I entered a gang and my grades started dropping. I thought I was so cool, until I failed. I was still in my gang, and I thought I was cool, but the problem was I had already failed. Then came the time to grow up. Once I realized that I knew what I had to do. I left my gang and concentrated on my work and less on being cool. Next, I lost my attitude and started respecting myself and my peers. What I'm trying to say is you can have fun like I did, but you have to suffer the consequences. Growing up is hard but you'll get there. --Kevin, 9th grade Frederick Douglass High School I have grown and changed this year in many ways. I have grown both physically and mentally. Physically I have grown because I have more muscles. I have grown mentally because I am reading more books. To physically grow, you should work out in the weight room. To grow mentally you should read books in a quiet area and you will learn more. --John, 9th grade Frederick Douglass High School I have grown and changed this past year in my lifestyle. This year I became more mature. Parents, teachers, etc. treat you life an adult for what you do wrong and you get congratulated for the good things you do. My advice is to look back and think about how silly some of the things you did were and don't do them anymore. --Constance, 9th grade Frederick Douglass High School Hello, my name is Justin and I want to tell you what I have learned in high school. I have learned a lot the two years I have been here. One of the things I have learned is to ask questions in class when you don't understand how to do something. You also make a lot of new friends. It is really fun because you are able to get your license if you pass, of course. Justin, Vandalia High 10th Vandilia, IL Hi! My name is Jim and I just want to tell you that in high school you can not skip out because you will come short of your credits. You might flunk your class and have to take it over again the next year. In your second year of high school, you will take drivers ed. It is kind of easy but the teacher is kind of hard on you in the classroom. You will also learn a lot about computers and how you use them. Jim, Vandalia High 10th Vandilia, IL I am a sophomore at Vandalia High School. One thing I have learned this year is to ask questions. If you don't ask questions then you will never learn. Nothing is as hard as it looks, unless you make it that way. If you say you can do it then you can, but if you say you can't then you won't. It helps a lot to do your homework. So, do your homework every night in every class. Crystal, Vandalia High 10th Vandilia, IL I am a sophomore at Vandalia High School. My advice to you is to stay in school as long as possible to get your education. Go to college after high school so you can get a good job out in the real world. Because if you don't, you will be flipping hamburgers the rest of your life and you don't want to do that. If you want to make a lot of money in your life, you should get your education and graduate from school. Josh, Vandalia High 10th Vandilia, IL Hello, my name is Amanda. I am a sophomore at Vandalia High School. My suggestions to the students coming into high school or going into their second year are: first, whatever subject you have, always try to do your best in everything and make the best grades that you can; second, if you have any questions one your homework, don't be afraid to ask for help on anything that you need help on; third, if you here any rumors about high school, don't believe them. Oh, and another thing, if you already know about peer pressure, there is a lot of peer pressure in high school; but just ignore it! Amanda, Vandalia High 10th Vandilia, IL Hello, my name is Aron. I just want to give you some advice about coming into the sophomore class. First, always try to do your best in all your subjects. Second, you should never smoke on the school grounds at all. Third, when someone want to fight with you, just back off. Also when you get in the sophomore class you take a class called drivers ed. It is really hard; and if you don't pass it the first time, you have to take it again. If you still don't pass, you have to take it till you do pass. This is some advice I'm giving to you, so you know what to look for when you get in high school. Aron, Vandalia High 10th Vandilia, IL During the course of the year, I have learned that life isn't always fair. It doesn't matter if it is right or fair, without authority you don't have a say in anything. This is the reason why I have learned to keep my mouth closed. You'll be in more trouble if you say something than if you don't say anything. I have also learned that you should give your best at all times. This will motivate others to do their best and it shows people what you are capable of doing when you put your best effort forth. The last thing I have learned during the course of the year is to love yourself. Loving yourself will give you a sense of pride, decency, and self-worth. In order to love and want to be loved by others you have to know who you are, where you have been, and where you are going. My advice would be "just be yourself." David- 10th grade Frederick Douglass High School The past year has been somewhat extravagant. I have become more involved in school's activities, such as the Mock Trial Club, Umoja, a mentoring group, and a second year member of the Student Government Association. My social life is still the same-a few best friends and many associates. I have matured mentally and physically in the past year and hopefully I will continue to grow and become wiser in my choices. My advice is "Know who you are and always do your best." Janiene, 10th grade Frederick Douglass High School In the past year I have grown up a lot. I have taken on more responsibilities than I have taken on in the past years. I have improved my grades and have started to study more. Also, when people say stupid remarks, I don't pay them any attention. Last year I would fight over dumb little things but I don't anymore. Ignoring the comments has helped me to mature and it can do the same for anyone who does the same. Dante, 10th grade Frederick Douglass High School This year has really changed my life. It has changed my views on a lot of different things. In high school you have to have a lot of patience and because of this I have come to appreciate it more. There are so many people with many different opinions and you just have to respect them. I have definitely changed my view on the way I act and present myself to others. Amber, 10th grade Frederick Douglass High School Since the past year I have changed in many ways. Last year my goals, desires, and tastes were low. This year I try harder academically and don't settle for mediocre things when I can earn the best. Things and foods I liked last year I don't touch this year. I believe this has something to do with maturing and growing older. My social life has changed somewhat. I am allowed to ride in cars and go on dates. My advice is let life take its course because everything takes time and good things come to those who wait. Ashley, 10th grade Frederick Douglass High School In the last year I have matured. I don't fight over petty things. I try not to let people annoy me. I will just walk away or let them know how I am feeling. I don't play little games because it always ends up back to the person who started it. I have more of a social life. I do more than I ever have. I respect people for who and what they are. I get along with my parents more than I ever have. I am now a positive person . I don't think negative thoughts as much as I used to. I love myself for me and what I am all about. I am up front with how I act and what I don't like. I have two things for you to remember: 1. Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. 2. Don't change yourself for anyone. Janine, 10th grade Frederick Douglass High School In the past year I have changed the way I think by expanding my vocabulary and learning skills. I have come a long way from what I used to be. I used to be very shy and didn't want to be in front of the class, but when you get to know the people in your class it is easy. I have been improving my grades by making a 3.62 on my report card. I have a lot of patience now. I have done so well that I don't have to work as hard to get A's in school. With all these skills I know I will do well in the next grade. Advice: If you want to do well in school just listen to the teachers and copy notes. When you do this you will do well in school. Troy, 10th grade Frederick Douglass High School I have matured in the past year, school wise. I've learned that you cannot goof around and still expect to get good grades. You need to get on the right track and stay on track to get good grades. I have found that it's also good to set goals and try to live up to them. You can't just set them, you have to follow through. Lauren, 10th grade Frederick Douglass High School "I wished I would have known about the many groups and clubs. They really should list it somewhere, or announce it in the announcements." Kate-Aurora,IL "I would have liked to known how much harder it (high school) was. In Jr. high, you could do almost nothing, and still slide by." Cindy-East Aurora,IL "If I could give someone advice before coming to high school, it would be know who you are. What I mean is, there are so many dangerous things out there, that it's hard for someone with no self confidence to stay safe. Don't try really hard to fit in." Mark-Aurora,IL "Be prepared. There is so much to learn the first couple weeks. Where you locker is, where your classes are, sports to go out for, and lots of other things. If you don't know about them, or don't try to learn you locker combination, the first few weeks are gonna be pretty rough. Also smile, it makes making friends easier." Bethanne-East Aurora,IL "If I could have known anything it would have been how important it is to work. High school is more important than college, but I don't think that many people realize it, and always look to the future. I would have also liked to have a better alarm clock." Carlos-East Aurora,IL As my high school years are coming to a close I am able to reflect upon the decisions of my past and their relevance. I've learned that as an underclassman you must respect the upperclassman. It is also crucial that you get involved. Don't be afraid to try new things, it provides a great opportunity to meet new people! The most important thing I have learned is that in order to succeed you'll have to work hard. Your academic record will directly effect you future. It's important that you set goals and strive to achieve them without hesitation. As they say "if you shoot for the moon and miss, you'll still be one of the stars!" Krista, Lemars, Iowa 11th First of all thru my high school life I wish I was more involved with activities because that’s what colleges want someone who is active in there community. it was harder for me to get scholarships for my college that I am attending next fall. I also wish that I put more effort into my schooling. my grades have never been the best, but they were average. To sum it up, I should have made more of an effort in school for the future. Charity, Lemars, Iowa 12th This is my last year in high school and I am very excited to be entering the real world next year. I feel that with the information I learned in school, especially this year, I am more prepared for the big step. Classes such as Senior Composition taught me how to write a research paper so I will have the knowledge as I enter college. The biggest thing to remember as you enter your senior year is to stay focused. You learn a lot of information your senior year that will be useful in college and later on in life. Jill- LeMars, Iowa 12th High school is a lot different from middle school. Not only was it different for me, but for everyone else as well. It may be the trouble of getting up so early or the courage to face over 3,000 kids a day. My advice is to stick high school out; do your best and have fun. Don't be afraid of the tasks you may have; just take it day by day and continue to the next. Remember this: soon you will graduate and it will be time for another change. Set your goals and succeed. Live for change. Don't be afraid of it. Gina- Streamwood High School Elgin, IL This is what I've learned throughout my high school education. The most important thing I have learned is to attend class every day. I have also learned that every student should have at least one computer class before graduating. In this day and age computers are taking over our world, and you need to know how to operate one in order to be successful. Your attitude also has a lot to do with the way your high school education goes. If you go to school everyday with a smile and an open mind, then you can learn anything and teachers will be more willing to help you. Come to school everyday with a smile and an open mind. Kelli, Kinder, LA, Grade 12 Hi! I'm a senior and I'm going to tell you what I have learned this past year. I have learned the importance of planning ahead, using computers both now and in the future, and using my own mind instead of depending on others. I have learned how to do a research paper correctly because of a wonderful English teacher. I have learned many important tips in band. And my largest academic lesson is that PHYSICS is not as hard as it sounds if you open your mind and are not afraid of a challenge. KHS has helped me to become a person ready for the "Real World", or at least collage. I have learned how to do almost anything in Windows and WordPerfect. I have learned how to find my way around the Net and get what I want from it. Karla, Kinder, La, Grade 12 Hello. I am a Senior at Kinder High School in Kinder, Louisiana. My Senior class is very anxious to graduate. Because of my experiences this year and the years past, I would tell you to never give up - no matter what - and always try your best. Set your goals high according to your dreams and interests. You can only do things one day at a time. Don't rush yourself, but don't let yourself get behind either. You cannot get anywhere by doing nothing. Don't ever be afraid to ask questions, because you cannot find all of the answers on your own. And last but not least - be straightforward and always stand up for what you believe in - especially yourself. Amber, Kinder, LA, Grade 12 In my past high school years I have learned and endured quite a few things. The main thing I learned is that no matter how hard things get or seem to be, never give up!! The worst thing you could do is to give up. You have to stay in there and tough it out. Giving up just shows that you are taking the coward's way out. On a normal basis you are going to endure lots of teasing and you are going to be made fun of. That doesn't matter. People are going to talk about you regardless to if you are doing good or bad. Last but certainly not least, stay in school. If the classes are too hard just stick it out. Do not quit school just because something is too hard. You will learn soon enough that this world is much harder than school will ever be. Shameika, Kinder, LA Grade 12 In the past and final year of high school, I have learned about people. I have learned about things. I have learned about people and things that do go together and some that don't go together. I've learned that everything's not a joke, but more things should be. I have learned that there is no substitute for a good reputation...except for a good heart. I've learned that knowing you like somebody is better than thinking you love them. Don-. Kinder, LA. grade 12 I am a Senior this year, and it is almost unbelievable, but I am just about to enter the "real world", and it scares me to death! When I was younger (in my semi-rebellious stage), I was eager to leave home, and make my own rules, but that is just not the case now! My last year in school has been pretty good, but I have had a slight problem...I am close to not graduating! In all of my other years in high school, I was a very obedient student, but this year, I felt as if it were time to relax for me, and that is just not the case. I high school, you have to remember that every single year counts, and you should never take things for granted. You will get what you want in life, if you put forth the effort, and will!! Alanna- Le Mars, Iowa 12th grade Hi! I have learned many good things to help me in the future. Here is some information for you to consider. Keyboarding and computer classes should be taken by all students before graduating from high school. Almost all jobs have to do with a little computer technology. It doesn't matter how hard it gets, never give up. The more you work at it, the better it gets. Many students think they do not need to know how to work computers. But I think they are wrong. Look at the job market today; almost everything has to do with computers. Think what it will be like in five years from now. My advice to you is to do your best and learn about computers. One more thing is to stay in school. That is one of the most important parts of your life. Neil, Kinder, LA Grade 12 Hi! One thing I have learned at Kinder High School is it is easy to make mistakes. If you make mistakes, don't give up. Keep trying! Sooner or later you will get better at whatever you are doing. You are only human and humans make mistakes. I have made many mistakes in everything I have done. When I have made mistakes, I thought about giving up, but I did not give up. I kept trying and whatever it was that I was doing, I got better and better at it. So just remember never ever give up. Ryan Kinder, LA Grade 12 Coming into the 9th grade I was sure high school was going to be a blast. And what do you know, it was!! I have learned a lot about myself and the environment around me. I've become close to many friends and have made many of new friens. We've shared our secrets, anxieties, and happiness together. I have been througha numerous of puppy love relationships that I can look back on and laugh. Growing up is not as difficult as learning to believe in yourself. I think that any person can achieve many things in their life and have great effects on other people that they come in contact with. I am glad that I have had the opportunity to grow up around very open-minded people and I will miss all of my high school friends as the year will come to a close. We will all go off our seperate ways, but we will still be in each mind's for the rest of our life. I can't wait to meet more people in college and learn more about myself. Camie, Iowa Grade 12 1.) Know the content and expectations of courses ahead of time. Ask your teachers what type of work assignments and homework will be involved and how much time these will take. This helps to avoid courses which you think will be overwhelming for your abilities and personal circumstances. I failed to do this in the first semester of this year, and I ended up with a low mark due to uncompleted assignments; 2) Organize yourself. Obtain some kind of organizing book--like a calendar, agenda book, notepad or even just a separate sheet of paper--so as to keep daily track of assignments, tests, and homework. Be sure to write down the instructions, requirements, and due dates. 3) Decide about how you will organize and place the items in your desk or locker or other storage place. Think about the number of binders you will need, folders, as well the supply of writing utensils and items such as glue, tape, staplers etc. If you have a locker, you may wish to buy or make yourself some shelves to place inside as to keep the locker's contents orderly, clean, neat, and easy to find. I have been using wooden shelves in my locker for a few years now and they are really helpful, compared to students who don't have shelves who end up with crumpled, ripped papers and books sitting piled at the bottom of their lockers. Some or most lockers have at least one shelf already built into them, and sometimes coat hooks too. Amanda- Athens, Ontario, Canada grade 13 return to beginning

College

Study hard, but take time to relax. The purpose of college is to grow and prepare you to enter into a career. Academics is the focal point (and you should begin on day 1), but learning comes from all parts of life. Pick a major early. If you're not sure what area to go into, talk to academic counselors, professors in fields that sound interesting, or professionals in a given career. Meanwhile, take general education courses and courses that interest you. Don't take classes just to see if you'll eventually like it. You waste a lot of time and money that way. Reach out to others around you. Most people enter a new social group and a new environment when starting school. Although change has different affects on different people, most in-coming students are making major adjustments. Take the time to get involved with others and get into activities that interest you. Make a difference right away. Joe- Brigham Young University Provo, Utah The one thing I wish I'd have known before entering college would have been to take a lighter, more general load of classed so the transition from a high school level of classes to a college level of classes would have been a little easier. what I mean to say is that the amount of studying required in college allows for almost no comparison for the amount of studying demanded in high school -- or should I say the lack of studying demanded in high school. what I mean by lighter, and more general is don't take an excessive amount of classes in the same subject early on ... like microbiology and biology in the same semester as several other classes. at least not in your first semester. you don't need to dive into you major classes right away. take it easy at least the first semester. take a broad range of classes so you are not only relieved a little homework, but you also are exposed to a larger array of possible majors which may just interest you. This is what I wish I had done. rather, I thought I knew what I wanted and dove in head first into what became a pile of unwanted and "rather time-demanding" classes. Adam- Brigham Young University ADVICE FOR THE INCOMING COLLEGE STUDENT There are two things that are always underrated: planning and organization. When you get to college, a whole new world (kind of like Aladdin) of opportunities will be shoved into your face. You're going want to do everything. And you can. But only if you manage your time very efficiently, and plan ahead each and every semester. Biting off more than you can chew will hurt your grades, your social life, your health, even your mental stability. Stress is not your friend!! So get organized, plan your time efficiently and effectively, and you will conquer the world. John- University of Illinois The college work load is much heavier than it may appear at first glance, and papers and assignments can pile up and get out of control very quickly if you don't stay on top of them. Sometimes, despite your best efforts to stay current in your classes, you will fall behind due to illness or something else. It's even worse for you if you become ill when you are already behind, so do all you can to keep up in class. Lynn- University of Illinois On a personal note, I would have liked to have known what people in my major did for a living, what extracurricular opportunities were available, especially those applicable to my major, what classes & teachers to avoid, and most importantly, what things can and should I do that would help me when I graduate. Ben- University of Illinois I would advise high school students to really look around them at the options in classes that they have to take. When I was in high school I knew what I wanted to be when I grew up, and didn't realize that my interests may change, or that I really didn't know what that profession entails. High school guidance counselors have a lot of resources available to look at different careers. Evaluate your interests and abilities now (while in high school) and try to match them to a career that you would enjoy. While you are still living at home, take on some added responsibilities around the house. You will learn valuable skills that are necessary to college survival. You can only survive on Ramen noodles for so long. If you decide after starting college that you want to take some time off, be sure that you continue to take a class or two to keep your mind working. I left school with the intention of only taking a semester off. If I had continued school with at least one class it wouldn't have taken me two years to go back full time. Never stop learning. Amanda- Ricks College Rexburg, Idaho Probably my biggest advice for any incoming freshman is to get involved in campus activities as soon as possible. Not only will it allow them to make many friends but it will also provide many chances for leadership and involvement. Many colleges, such as University of Illinois, are huge and it is easy to feel swallowed up and forgotten by all the people. By getting involved freshman will carve themselves a little niche on campus and in the end lay out a more exciting and fun college career. Amy- University of Illinois My advice for incoming college students would be that not only is it okay if they don't know exactly what they want to major in/be when they grow up, but it's probably even better if they don't commit themselves to too rigid a career path from the beginning. People change, and so do their goals, and that's why it would make more sense to get general liberal arts requirements out of the way first so they have some flexibility in deciding on an ultimate major and career path. Erin- University of Illinois Be as outgoing as you can early on in college and make as many friends as you can. Everyone is in the same boat as you are and is looking to make friends as well. The beginning of the year is the best time to make friends because nobody has any yet. Study hard right form the beginning as well. Get a good base on your first couple of tests so that you can gain some confidence and realize that you belong here. Getting into bad habits right off the bat is not a good idea. Neil- University of Illinois Entering college with an idea of what you want to do in your professional career is a good start because changing your field of study after your Sophomore year can cause you to stay in college longer. Know that each curriculum has its own set of requirements; thus, switching fields of study too late can be bad because you might need to take additional classes that you didn't need to take in your initially intended career. Therefore, ponder your life desires and set some goals to achieve. What do you really want to do with your life and what area of study will help you achieve that goal? Remember, college is your start to a more responsible life. Kerry- University of Illinois 1)Be assertive. Don't Procrastinate. 2)Get your GPA as high as you can when you start, so be careful of where you spend your times. 3)Get to know your TA's and Professors and find out what they expect from you. Let them know that you are a highly motivated student. Jaime- University of Illinois OK, I would say... --get to know the bus schedule --if you can't understand the TA, switch sections --remember this isn't high school, so don't expect the workload to be as such. --GET INVOLVED WITH ACTIVITIES! (keep eyes peeled for bulletin boards, go to Quad Day and other activity fairs, etc.) --don't be afraid to try new things (except for dorm food) Alison- University of Illinois I think that everyone entering college should know a few things that very few seniors in high school ever do. Number one: you will make dozens of good friends in college, but in college you will find out what TRUE friends are. Number two: just face it, you WILL change. Gayle- University of Illinois I would have liked to have been told, I think it would have been helpful to know what college life was about. To be told about the classes and what would be expected of you. For college is nothing like high school. You have to put more time into your work. You cannot come home from school and expect to have your work done in three or four hours. More time is put into you studies and preparing yourself for the next day. Knowing how a day would run, or being aware of the freedom and time I would have, is good to know. I am not saying that you will have all this free time, because that is not so. But you are free to choose what to do with your time. Professors are not going to tell you what to do. You are free to make your own choices and do what you wish. If you wish not to attend class, that is fine. Or if you decide not to do the homework, that is fine too. The professors are not going to ask where you were or where your work is. What you choose to do, depends on yourself. College is time and a place where you find your self and really see what kind of person you are. Michele- Brigham Young University If I were to enter college again, I would have liked to have been better informed in High School about what college classes were really like and how I could better prepare myself to achieve good grades in college. Stacy- Brigham Young University Before I started college, I wish I knew was how little school actually plays a part in the things that I am learning. I have been learning more about life, people and myself than any math, chemistry, physics, physiology, literature, or art class could teach about their particular subject. Classes are just the perks. Jana- University of Illinois College is an amazing time to grow intellectually. Don't choose a major or a focus in your work because you might be making large amounts of money some day. Try out different classes and figure out what you like. Don't look at each class as a burden, but rather an opportunity to expand your understanding of the world in which you live. Grab all the knowledge you can while it's available to you. Jon- Unversity of Illinois -C's may be average, but you are better than that. -If you do what is asked of you, then you'll do alright. -Nobody cooks better than mom. Tell her so. -Some people are just jerks, and you have to deal with it. Paul- University of Illinois Your education is exactly that - yours. You shouldn't study what other people think you should. You should find something you can be involved in, something you like, something you can be proud of. Find an area of study that you are willing to do LOTS of homework in and that can enlighten your mind in a direction you want to go. While striving for this "education" you must make sacrifices. Your social life, financial status, and sleep schedule will be unstable or severely altered. There are days you will want to quit. You cannot give up. Though it is a rough journey, knowledge is forever yours. You do get back what you put in. It is worth it and it is a sacrifice. Jen- University of Illinois I have two pieces of advice to students entering college. First, learn how to manage money. When you first gain complete freedom from parents, it is sometimes difficult to understand money management. Second, acquire good study habits. The hardest adjustment I had to make when entering college was the amount and quality of studying expected. Jelena- University of Illinois Be prepared for changes in yourself as well as others. The changes may not be noticeable to yourself and your new friends but when you go home don't expect everyone to have changed in the positive way you have. Therefore, every time you go home, it becomes a less familiar place than your life away. Jen- Bradley University Peoria, Illinois I did not go to high school in this country, and school is very different in Sweden. If there are international students coming to a school, the best thing they can do is to learn the English language. If they know the language and are able to communicate with other people, everything else will eventually fall into place. Helena- Brigham Young University return to beginning